My observation bout confidence.

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I think confidence is simply a confirmed model of reality that proves true over and over again.

I dont think women are attracted to confidence, its pretty much any human who is attracted to "someone who believes himself to be right". Its because humans deal with uncertain situations, and when someone knows exactly what to do he will attract other humans around him.

Obviously confidence can go up or low, and people who thought they knew it all can drop their morale instantly if their model of reality fails. For example I remember during convid, there were these normies thinking they know it all, and they were already accusing "the antivaccinist" because they listened to "the experts".

The experts told them a sequence of reassuring things, that made normies feel a bit of confidence. The normies started to act fanatic and launch accusations, it was a period of max confidence dunning kruger type of effect on the mass. They knew nothing, but they listened to "the expert" oftentimes repeating verbatim opinions from "the expert" on television.

Later, they are proved wrong, their confidence goes low, some of the most conscientious among them feel probably shame and regret. They drop silent, their confidence was destroyed.

This is just an example how confidence works. Its not a mechanism of seduction. ANd its fake tat women want confidence or something.

Confidence can come from various sources. You can be convinced of a model of reality, and you become confident. This is the normie, he enters jeowah witness group for example and they teach him about armageddon and so on. The normie believes it, he is maximally confident, simply because maybe he had no direction in life and now he has one. Group gave him a direction and a rational explanation.

It can be you have confidence because you repeat operations that proved successful. Imagine an artist whos doing a painting, he will know all the steps and be maximally confident, no doubt in his abilities, he can do all strokes knowing what they will accomplish. Why? because the artist already gathered evidence his assumptions about painting are all true more or less.
Chad is confident. Why? because chad is accepted by others by virtue of being a good lookin person. he doesnt have to prove anything.

Is confidence the way to attract partners for relationshits? No, its fake, i never believed it to be true. Its total junk. Its a complete lie. Some people can be attracted to signals of vulnerability or "you understand me" vibe or the exploitation imbalance like these stacies at redpill feminism. The stacies at redpill feminism dont give a fuck about male confidence, they care about wallet size the most. Some people like certainty and comfort, for example they go after people who dress in predictable manner like urban street culture clothing.

This idea wmen go after confidence is yet another redpill delusion. Why they teach you confidence? Is simply because as I already said, the redpill is a marketing spinoff. They teach people how to sell items. They teach you a model of consumption. They want you to self-consume, market yourself. They want you to become visible and they select you if you are trainable and if they can repeat their process sharing info with you, because they are all marketers. The intelligence of people who dedicate their life to marketing is low, dont expect them to go beyond certain assumptions.