If people treat you poorly, it ended

[OutcastedOutcast]

The most important thing in life is to be accepted.

For jobs.
For friends.
For social networks.
For a sense of purpose.
For a reason to live.

Anyone trying to sell you the idea of a stoic loner male
being optimal is lying to you. It is in no way shape or form healthy mentally or physically for one to be socially shunned and isolated by many.

Do people give you weird looks? They don't even know you and they already gave you a death glare. You see them smiling to others but to you it's not the case.

Just like many others, we convince ourselves in the early or denial stages in our lives that we are just not doing enough.
"There's got to be something I must do."
Maybe you think, if I hit the gym, lose weight.
Maybe if I actually try harder.
Nothing wrong with hard work.

But you do that, and still even with your degree, your intense gym routines and strict caloric diet. You still get reminded of how genetics is everything.

It's not normal to be mistreated by people. I'm sure many of you tried to mask your neurodivergency. Only to see a better looking man with weird antics and habits still be loved.
You tried to smile and come across as approachable as much as possible. But good looking men frown as much as they want and no one calls them out for being unapproachable.
You did so much but so little results happened.

It's OK to try but it's about being realistic.
If your mistreated by people for whatever reason, truth is that it's completely a wrap. That's it. Sure maybe you can go try to interact with others and try your luck to make a new good impression, but for the most part, regular people generally get along with most people.

The point of this is to suggest that we best re-direct our efforts elsewhere. It seems that many men like us deep within still seek out validation even as Blackpilled as some are. It is totally normal but it comes with a heavy burden.
Your going to be looking for something you won't get.
Please save your time, energy, sanity and life. Spend less time day by day progressively unlearning the need to be validated.
If your not being validated now, chances are you won't be later. Move forward in something more productive and realistic. Don't stay trapped in this cycle of need to be validated, it's a horrible way to live.