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I had a porn addiction which had cost me 7 years , 7000 ejaculations and 70000 hours of my time . I wrote part of this time of addiction in the thread Female Bodies are overrated.

Well I assure that I have completely shut down my sex drive which happen on 1 December .First let me define the terms PMO which is Porn Masturbation Orgasm which is well known . DMD is Dating Marriage Divorce and I had redefined them in order to reach escape velocity that is shutting down my sex drive .

Here the only value of measurement is time .

Dating : A space where you go for partners

Marriage : Time period where you decide to be exclusive towards your selected partner.

Divorce : You can no longer stand your partners hence therefore wasting your time.

On 1st at 2am I got up and watched porn and then suddenly it occurred to me that I am no different from a blue pilled man who worships pussy . Then I stopped watching and went down the rabbit hole of that thought and came to the conclusion that PMO is DMD .

This is because when you go to Porn/Dating to select a partner to whom you masturbate/marry for a certain amount of time . You ideally want to be forever in the marriage but you get orgasm / divorce after which you realize the finite time you lost.

Hence with this knowledge which I realized and internalized I could overcome my sexual desires and reach escape velocity. But the years of brain connections and desire for porn was not easy to overcome .

On 5th December night I got a dream of the perfect porn which I wanted to masturbate/marry so desperately then for the next few hours I spent all my mental energy fighting of that desire with the quote PMO is DMD and finally slept tired . Even today when I got boners I calm down delving into the quote PMO is DMD.

I am red pill for 4 years throughout my life my mother basically sucked the soul out of my father and is the reason I am in poverty . This is the reason I hated marriage so much and managed to overcome PMO by associating it to DMD.

Hence with this I managed to reach escape velocity that is shutting down my sex drive . Earlier whenever I reached a long streak of Nofap it would be ruined by seeing some beautiful lady . But now I can completely control my dick which I guess have to thank my mom for making my dad suffer.

This concept of DMD also applies to Chad who can sleep with all foids . He wastes his finite life living like a animal in heat . I have finally became MGTOW monk and reached escape velocity .

I think of what would happen if I knew 7 years ago then where would I be but I guess I suffered for 7 years to maybe have my next 70 years better .

interesting. Since I participate with normie communities I hear these people and they talk about sex often. Im incel incognito and Icant always reveal my incel identity.

What I noticed is all these sexgetters are often bored and they dont attribute the importance I give to sex. Some have attitudes we previously associated (with media influence) to the old broken marriage people who want to "spice up" experiences so they do BDSM or something. But they do these things yuonger, and they want more hardcore experiences. Becuase sex is normal and outdated and boring to them.

I have a different perspective as an incel. For me sex is a mirage and im not allowed to get it.

In my case I didnt have any bad exp about marriage. I started to dislike it when I was teen. But most people dismissed my arguing against marriage telling me hollywood influenced me and im not serious and I woould have married later. So we had this theory back then of the "teenager with the phase" and it was attributed to me.

Later I just fortify my anti-marriage stances, I expand them. I start also denying the dating ideology, the dating market, the normie mating rituals. I become more radical. I think normies still saw me as a lunatic SJW with a phase.

After 10 years I become even more radical I already joined incel scene. I became also antifeminist misogynist, hater of women and society. My positions became even more radical even more antisocial. I can not even fit in an SJW "relationship anarchy" community because im too much radical and antisocial and I would criticize their dating models too.

Basically what I ended up doing was getting into study of MK ultra and i want nothing to do with society telling me whats the mating ritual to follow.

And after observing normies and living with them, I just noticed none of their models work, and no normie is aware of what hes doing. Normies enter into negotiations and contracts daily and none has any clue what they are about to do. So, my conclusion is normies are clueless. Normies dont have a conscience. All robots. And whatever robotoid thing they do, fails, nobody is happy nobody will ever be happy. I am happier than they are even as incel. But its another story.

Rever wrote: 09 Dec 2025, 08:51 This concept of DMD also applies to Chad who can sleep with all foids . He wastes his finite life living like a animal in heat . I have finally became MGTOW monk and reached escape velocity .

This can happen. I mean not in current MGTOW community which sucks but in theory yes it can be.

There are people who manage to not be fucked over by women. Some people are able to handle the sex drive and realize how to control their own impulses. Our current culture discourages it.

At some level, also Incels.is discourages this sort of outcome because they have "the blackpill" and they demand people to be sadboi depress forever, so they would probably question the person telling them such a result is possible and some achieve it. The outcome of the blackpill is basically youre depress and a worm and you have to demand government solutions and other people should fix your problems and you dont pull your weights for some reason.

I do think is perfectly possible to reach goals like "not being a slave to women" and some teens independent of these manuresphere environments already approach these solutions on their own.

With respect for your great achievement. I feel like also telling you what is my idea instead. I think porn helps us. I mean, we see tits pussy and so on. We do not require woman to show tits, we already have porn. Instead of simping for women like worms, we jack off and get rid of the stimulus. I do it and Im like a castrated male when Im outside in society. Even if I wanted I could not fuck any woman. Even in the absurdly rare occurrence a woman stops me in the street and tells me "hey I need to slurp your cock" I would not be able to have any erection because I am under porn and im well fed, well masturbaed and well nourished with gym and coping.

So the result for me is im not approaching anyone. Im not doing anything to women, tey dont influence me. I antagonize women on a regular. No woman can use allure or anything. None of them looks better than an hentai. I think im the closest a man can be to a chinese misogynist. There are very few holes in my incel defense. As for how I am now, is some sort of extremist misogynist that feminists and psychologists would warn us against. I became everything the psychologist would call "maladjusted". And porn is one of my secret ingredients.

Everyone has their way of life