International Brotherhood of Men

After a few months of waiting I forgot about it until this afternoon when that Christian foid I knew from college responded back to my texts. She claimed she forgot to respond as she lost my "texts in a sea of messages." I am conflicted as to whether I should respond because I share a complex delusion with her and she appears to be oblivious to it. I see her as more than a friend, I want to marry her, have kids with her and move to a different part of the country and live happily ever after. I think of her having my last name already. I want to share my last name with her and she has no idea.

I am fearing a response to her might reignite this complex delusion.

It doesn't matter. Just respond to her. And her waiting and telling you this obviously shows that she has no interest for you, especially if this was all what she messaged. Also, it could be that she does that again. If she lets you wait again and doesn't better her behavior, then she doesn't even see you as human.

It's already been months. The foid I'm talking to usually replies in a day and shows not a speck of interest with me.

I wouldon't tbh.

VH911 wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 11:10 It doesn't matter. Just respond to her. And her waiting and telling you this obviously shows that she has no interest for you, especially if this was all what she messaged. Also, it could be that she does that again. If she lets you wait again and doesn't better her behavior, then she doesn't even see you as human.

This wasn't all she wrote. She sent me like five detailed messages explaining how she's been over the past few months. I actually replied back and she sent six detailed messages in just a few hours. I again replied back but she hasn't responded yet. Whenever she replies it's usually a lot of detailed messages and sometimes her reply frequency varies could range anywhere from a few days a few weeks to a few months.

Sub5riceguy wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:07 It's already been months. The foid I'm talking to usually replies in a day and shows not a speck of interest with me.

I wouldon't tbh.

You are probably right if only I could resist the temptation

SonOfElliotRodger wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:52

VH911 wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 11:10 It doesn't matter. Just respond to her. And her waiting and telling you this obviously shows that she has no interest for you, especially if this was all what she messaged. Also, it could be that she does that again. If she lets you wait again and doesn't better her behavior, then she doesn't even see you as human.

This wasn't all she wrote. She sent me like five detailed messages explaining how she's been over the past few months. I actually replied back and she sent six detailed messages in just a few hours. I again replied back but she hasn't responded yet. Whenever she replies it's usually a lot of detailed messages and sometimes her reply frequency varies could range anywhere from a few days a few weeks to a few months.

Just be authentic and make advancements.

SonOfElliotRodger wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:53

Sub5riceguy wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:07 It's already been months. The foid I'm talking to usually replies in a day and shows not a speck of interest with me.

I wouldon't tbh.

You are probably right if only I could resist the temptation

Just think of her with her 6,4 chad boyfriend. That's a way to demotivate yourself

Sub5riceguy wrote: 31 Dec 2025, 23:19

SonOfElliotRodger wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:53

Sub5riceguy wrote: 30 Dec 2025, 18:07 It's already been months. The foid I'm talking to usually replies in a day and shows not a speck of interest with me.

I wouldon't tbh.

You are probably right if only I could resist the temptation

Just think of her with her 6,4 chad boyfriend. That's a way to demotivate yourself

I do have to admit that would be a good way to move on.